Course Overview
Overview
You can finish the thing. The hard part is letting it go. Most perfectionist writers ship, then re-edit, then re-ship, then quietly hate the original ship. We’re going to break the touching habit. Six weeks of structured ship-and-leave practice. Each week one piece goes out the door, and you do not return to it. We’ll address how that feels (bad, then fine, then liberating). Comes with the famous ‘I am no longer the editor of this piece’ contract you sign with yourself. Six weeks. Thirty lessons. By the end you’ll have shipped six pieces AND not touched any of them. The not-touching is the deliverable.
What’s inside
- 6 modules, 30 lessons + ship contract — focused on the detachment, not the production
- Mindset Maven Test that names YOUR specific post-ship touching pattern
- 6 guided meditations averaging 10 minutes — paired to the weekly ship-and-walk practice
- Toolkit: the Ship Contract Template + the Post-Ship No-Touch Protocol Card
- Lifetime access, unlimited retakes — touching habits re-grow; come back when they do
- Companion blog post per module — public, perfect for the friend who keeps editing her published posts
Who this is for
- The blogger who edits her published posts for weeks after publication
- The podcaster who pulls episodes and re-records them six months later
- The brand storyteller who keeps refining the brand story years after launch
- The comedian who rewrites a bit she’s already performed eight times
FAQs
What if the piece genuinely has a typo or error?
Module 3 covers the narrow exception protocol — genuine factual errors can be corrected; cosmetic touching cannot. The exception is narrow on purpose.
Won’t this lead to lower quality?
No. The Five-Pass Editing System (BM-086) covers quality. This course addresses what happens AFTER quality work is done. Shipping is its own skill; detaching is its own skill.
What’s the ship contract?
A signed agreement with yourself stating ‘I am no longer the editor of this piece’ once you press publish. The contract is laminated by some students. Most just print and sign. The signing matters.
Is this for fiction writers too?
Yes — Module 5 covers fiction-specific shipping (book publication, post-launch handling). The principles apply across forms.
My therapist suggested I take this. Is it therapeutic?
It’s not therapy — it’s a structured behavior-modification course for the touching habit. But it can be a useful adjunct to therapy work on perfectionism (several therapists have referred clients to it).
Can I retake?
Yes. Unlimited. Touching habits re-grow during quiet seasons; rebuild the protocol whenever you notice you’re touching again.
What one student said
★★★★☆
“My therapist suggested I take this. I bought it under duress. The contract with myself is taped to my desk. I still touch the shipped poems sometimes — about half as often as before. I notice now when I touch them, which I didn’t before. The course did not fix me; my therapist had told me it wouldn’t. It did move the needle. Four stars because shipping-and-walking-away is still not a thing I do reliably, and I want anyone reading this review to have honest expectations.”
— Pia R., poet (bought it on her therapist’s recommendation)
Curriculum
- 6 Sections
- 24 Lessons
- Lifetime
- Module 1: Your Touching Pattern (How You Specifically Re-Touch What You've Shipped)Week one we diagnose the touching. Most over-touchers think they have ONE pattern. They have several. Some touch within 24 hours of shipping (Acute Toucher). Some touch a week later (Delayed Toucher).6
- 1.1Module 1: Overview20
- 1.2Mindset Maven Test: What’s YOUR Specific Touching Pattern?2 Questions
- 1.3Meditation: Watching Yourself Touch (a Slow Audio for the Behavior)10
- 1.4Writing Prompt: Module 130
- 1.5INSPIRATION: The Six Years I Spent Touching Forty-Seven Published Blog Posts15
- 1.6Companion Blog: You Have a Specific Pattern of Re-Touching Your Published Work. Here’s How to Diagnose It.10
- Module 2: The Ship Contract (Signing the Detachment Into Existence)Week two we install the contract. Each piece you ship from now on gets a signed contract: 'I am no longer the editor of this piece.' The contract is short. The contract is signed and dated. The contra6
- 2.1Module 2: Overview20
- 2.2Mindset Maven Test: What Form of Contract Will YOUR Brain Take Seriously?2 Questions
- 2.3Meditation: Signing the Contract (a Ceremonial Audio)8
- 2.4Writing Prompt: Module 230
- 2.5INSPIRATION: The First Contract I Signed With Myself (And the Way the Touching Stopped)15
- 2.6Companion Blog: Sign a Contract With Yourself That You Won’t Touch Your Published Work for 30 Days10
- Module 3: The Narrow Exception (Genuine Errors vs. Cosmetic Touching)Week three covers the narrow exception. SOMETIMES a published piece has a genuine factual error — a misspelled name, an incorrect date, a broken link. Those CAN be corrected without violating the cont6
- 3.1Module 3: Overview20
- 3.2Mindset Maven Test: How Much of YOUR Recent Touching Was Actually ‘Fixing Errors’?2 Questions
- 3.3Meditation: The Three-Question Test Audio (Run It Before Any Re-Touch)3
- 3.4Writing Prompt: Module 330
- 3.5INSPIRATION: The Forty Cosmetic Touches I Mislabeled as Error Fixes (One Specific Year)15
- 3.6Companion Blog: Most of Your ‘Error Fixes’ Are Cosmetic Touching. Here’s the Three-Question Test.10
- Module 4: The Post-Ship No-Touch Protocol (the 30-Day Window)Week four we install the protocol for the first 30 days after a ship — the highest-touch window. The protocol covers: where the shipped piece is filed (out of immediate reach), what you do when the ur6
- 4.1Module 4: Overview20
- 4.2Mindset Maven Test: What’s YOUR Highest-Risk Moment in the First 30 Days?2 Questions
- 4.3Meditation: The 5-Minute Redirect Audio (For When the Urge to Touch Hits)5
- 4.4Writing Prompt: Module 430
- 4.5INSPIRATION: The Thirty Days After I Shipped a Book and Did Not Touch It (How It Felt)15
- 4.6Companion Blog: The 30 Days After You Publish Are the Most Dangerous. Here’s the Protocol.10
- Module 5: Long-Form Shipping (Books, Albums, Brand Launches — When the Stakes Are Higher)Week five covers long-form. Shipping a blog post and shipping a book require different protocols — the stakes are different, the visibility is different, the duration of attention is different. This m6
- 5.1Module 5: Overview20
- 5.2Mindset Maven Test: What’s YOUR Specific Long-Form Touching Risk?2 Questions
- 5.3Meditation: The Long-Form Shipping Audio (Use Before a Major Release)16
- 5.4Writing Prompt: Module 530
- 5.5INSPIRATION: The Book I Did Not Touch For Six Months After Publication (And the Way That Six Months Felt)15
- 5.6Companion Blog: Shipping a Book Requires a Longer Contract. Here’s the 90-Day Launch Protocol.10
- Module 6: The Lifetime Practice (Shipping As an Ongoing Discipline)Final week. You'll compile your Personal Shipping Practice — a one-page reference holding YOUR touching pattern, YOUR ship contract template, YOUR three-question test card, YOUR post-ship 30-day proto6
- 6.1Module 6: Overview20
- 6.2Mindset Maven Test: What Will YOUR Shipping Practice Need in Five Years?2 Questions
- 6.3Meditation: Closing Audio: The Five-Year Letter About Shipping15
- 6.4Writing Prompt: Module 630
- 6.5INSPIRATION: Twelve Years of Shipping Practice (And What I Stopped Touching)15
- 6.6Companion Blog: Build a Lifetime Shipping Practice. Stop Touching the Things You’ve Already Sent Out.10